May 25, 2010

Weekly Confessional

I was told by my old pastor's wife (whom I use to have a very close relationship with) that when I got divorced (6 yrs ago) that I was "doomed to live a cursed life" if I went through with it. Those were her exact words. When I am weak, I let her words get to me and think that maybe that is the reason I have not had a baby yet.
 
Dumb.
 
I know.
 
But sometimes it's hard to let that go. It really haunts me.

5 comments:

Kendahl, Stepmom Extraordinaire said...
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Kendahl, Stepmom Extraordinaire said...

Can you imagine how cursed your life would be now if you hadn't divorced him? Very much more cursed!

I wish I could offer something more comforting but just know I love you! :)

(sorry for the deleted comment, I had a typo and it bothered me LOL)

brandy-son Zen master flash said...

Seriously Kendahl you totally made my day!

Thanks!

Jennikunz said...

Your old pastors wife cannot have revelations for you.. thats the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Don't believe it. She is/was a bitter old hag. Now I'm pissed!

Vapid Vixen said...

Duuuuude! What Kendahl said! I hate that I'm divorced and let it make me feel like a failure but then I think about what my life would be if I had continued to stick it out. Longevity with a spouse doesn't equal happiness. That choice has nothing to do with what you're dealing with in your adorable little family now. I really wish some people could understand the consequence of their ignorance and keep their EFFING MOUTHS SHUT!