I was told by my old pastor's wife (whom I use to have a very close relationship with) that when I got divorced (6 yrs ago) that I was "doomed to live a cursed life" if I went through with it. Those were her exact words. When I am weak, I let her words get to me and think that maybe that is the reason I have not had a baby yet.
But sometimes it's hard to let that go. It really haunts me.