I was told by my old pastor's wife (whom I use to have a very close relationship with) that when I got divorced (6 yrs ago) that I was "doomed to live a cursed life" if I went through with it. Those were her exact words. When I am weak, I let her words get to me and think that maybe that is the reason I have not had a baby yet.
Dumb.
I know.
But sometimes it's hard to let that go. It really haunts me.
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Can you imagine how cursed your life would be now if you hadn't divorced him? Very much more cursed!
I wish I could offer something more comforting but just know I love you! :)
(sorry for the deleted comment, I had a typo and it bothered me LOL)
Seriously Kendahl you totally made my day!
Thanks!
Duuuuude! What Kendahl said! I hate that I'm divorced and let it make me feel like a failure but then I think about what my life would be if I had continued to stick it out. Longevity with a spouse doesn't equal happiness. That choice has nothing to do with what you're dealing with in your adorable little family now. I really wish some people could understand the consequence of their ignorance and keep their EFFING MOUTHS SHUT!
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